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I am not an expert on the subject
but I would like to share some of my thoughts on love and heartbreaks. These are all my personal thoughts so it’s fine if you do not agree
because each one of us have our own opinion.
The reason I am writing this is
because it breaks my heart when I hear people blaming love for their broken
hearts. I believe that true love will never break your heart and if your heart has
been broken then that love was never true.
Love is a beautiful thing and
there is nothing more beautiful than love. It’s the best gift anyone can
receive or give. The people who have the ability to give true love and the ones
who receive such love are the most blessed ones.
There are many kinds of love,
be it in any form, love is always beautiful. Its love when a mother holds her
new born, its love when a dad carries his little one on his shoulder, its love when siblings stand for each other,
its love when friends encourage one another through the difficult times, its love
when a wife waits with the meal on the
table for her husband, its love when parents ignore their needs for the sake of
their children’s need, likewise love has
different forms and be it in any form love is always beautiful .
We however tend to take love in some form for granted because
some of these love tend to reach us way too easily, especially our parents’ love.
In today’s generation we give up on love
way too easily and that is because we are blindfolded with the wrong concepts
of love. If we truly understand what
love really is, we would never give up because love in itself is very
attractive and beautiful that we would never want to give up on.
We confuse love
with many other things such as fear, lust, desire, attraction, etc and that is
what is causing all the chaos like broken families, heartbreaks etc in our
societies today. If we truly understand what love really is and if we avoid the
confusion on love, our societies would be much better place to live in because
so many problems would be solved if only we could understand the real concept
of love.
True love is not about romance, candle light dinner, and walk along
the beach. It’s about respect, compromise, care and trust. Though love is about
compromising for the ones we love but there is a huge difference between us
willing to compromise and someone making us compromise. We got be wise enough
to understand the difference. You don’t have to put up an outstanding
performance to be loved.
The sad truth these days is that
broken hearts are very common. However, heartbreaks do not disqualify us from
being able to love but instead makes us stronger and helps us understand true
love better.
Well! who doesn't get their
heart broken? But that doesn't mean we have to stop loving. I like many
others have had my share of heartbreak and there was a time I used to wonder
why, but as the time passed by I realized that it was the best thing that ever
happened to me. The heartbreaks I went through made me understand love more clearly
and helped me be a stronger person than I was.
The beauty of love is that it accepts you with all your
imperfections and you never have to try and be who you are not just to be loved.
If you have ever gotten your heart broken just because you couldn't live up to
someone’s expectations then that person did you a great favor by breaking your
heart and you will definitely be grateful to them someday if not today.
I know
it sounds weird but it’s healthy to get your heart broken at times because
every heart break brings you closer to yourself and makes you analyze yourself.
But of course you should be willing to do the analysis. The more time you spend
analyzing and understanding yourself the more you will be able to see what you
are worth. Once you understand your true worth, no one will ever be able to
break your heart.
So love and heart break has no
correlation because these are two different concepts. Love everyone and if ever
your heart tends to be breaking don’t take it way too seriously because someday
that won’t matter a bit. So why ruin your today for something that is not going
to matter in the long run. Never stop
loving no matter how your experiences have been but make every experience an
opportunity to learn and never blame love for your heartbreak.
I Love You <3
With love,
Deborah J
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